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Understanding the Difference Between our Gut Instincts and Fear

Many of us struggle to recognize the difference between fear and a gut instinct. Knowing the difference can be a useful tool in helping us when it comes to decision making. Both fear and a gut reaction serve as an alarm system that goes off to warn us about impending danger or potentially harmful outcomes. However, one feeling is irrational, and another is an intuitive signal alerting us to take proper actions. But how can one tell the difference? 


Fear

For starters, fear is produced by hormonal surges activated by the amygdala. The central nervous system triggers chemical reactions in the brain, which activates the hypothalamus, sending chemical signals to the pituitary gland, releasing the hormone and ACH (adrenocorticotropic hormone) bloodstream. The brain’s chemical reactions set the body’s alarm system into flight or fight mode.

If you take time to analyze fear, you will realize that we initially started fearlessly. As infants, we had no understanding of anxiety until we learned through sensory experiences that certain pinches or gestures spontaneously activated our central nervous system.  During our developmental stages, we began learning from different backgrounds that specific actions produced adverse outcomes. Fear has several functions; it allows us to recognize things that may be dangerous such as jumping rope at the ledge of a building or hanging out in an alley filled with hungry rats while carrying a pizza.

However, fear can also turn into irrational and anxiety-producing behaviors that lock us inside an emotional safety box that prevents us from taking action. Fear can become counterproductive when it contributes to procrastination, phobias, or ongoing anxiety.


Gut Instinct

Our gut instinct, also known as our intuition, is connected to our sensory system, which we initially dependent on as infants entering a new world outside our mother’s womb. As infants, we enter the world with our sensory system fully ready to connect to our world. 

Our sensory experiences help create an internal database of quick responses to various impressions we witnessed during our infancy stages. Keep in mind; infants have no prior history to use as references for coping, which is why our intuition served as an observatory skill that allowed us to survive as we evolved through our developmental stages. As a whole, infants behave in occurrence to sensory inputs and lack the full awareness to comprehend fear, which is why most kids do not have phobias until later in their development.

Our intinction is designed to help us assess situations as quickly and as efficiently as possible for the sake of survival. In addition, our intuitive reactions, also known as the gut instinct, occurs spontaneously, seldom giving us time to process or even worry for long. Since instinctive responses occur in a flash, we barely have time to process what takes place, often leaving us clueless about taking action.



Understanding the difference

The difference between fear and our gut instincts is that the intuitive spark is seldom operating from a place of ego or hidden agendas. Here are some simple ways to tell the difference:


             Fear

  • Fear reacts to situations that reactivate old feelings
  • Fear halts us based on irrational concerns
  • Fear negates our skills to handle situations
  • Fear is based on both primitive survival skills and unresolved patterns
  • Fear often prevents us from taking actions
  • Fear is usually based on the belief we lack coping skills
  • Fear attempts to protect us from both real and imagined harm
  • Fear is based on anxious thinking



Gut Instincts

  • The gut reacts to the current situations
  • The gut has no logical summary to draw from
  • The gut operates from primitive survival skills we relied on before cognitive skills fully developed
  • The gut is trying to protect us
  • The gut understands situations before our conscious mind can decipher details
  • The gut reactions are based on the intuitive awareness
  • The gut reactions are validated at the end of the outcome

Our fear is based on years of collective experiences that have impacted our confidence and self-esteem. Fear often insulates use from actions that can benefit us, while our gut merely is protecting us. Our gut is like a smoke detector that smells out a fire, while our fear is unsure if it smells a fire or only recalls an experience.

Copyright © 2020 R. Castro

Sources

https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/323492#Triggering-the-response

https://www.bustle.com/p/9-fascinating-ways-to-tell-the-difference-between-gut-instincts-anxiety-according-to-experts-11935213

https://helpmegrowmn.org/HMG/HelpfulRes/Articles/WhatCognitiveDev/index.html

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Fear and its Impact

Fear can be a paralyzing and agonizing experience for some. The average person faces fear with some apprehension, but for the most part, most folks do what they can to let go of its grip. However, fear has many layers and ways in which it will impact us.  For instance, fear does some of the following when it is doing its best work:

  • It makes us believe we are incapable of improving
  • Reduces our efforts to improve because we subscribe to the mindset, we are beyond repair
  • Feeling defeated increases feeling of depression, which also decreases the production of dopamine in the brain, which reinforces the cycle of depression
  • Our lack of motivations decreases our desires to eat or follow medical recommendations
  • Our drive to improve is lessened when we do not see a logical point to continue the good fight
  • Fear impacts our concentration and decision-making skills
  • Fear keeps us stuck and unwilling to take the necessary risk
  • Fear locks us into cycles of unhealthy dependency on toxic individuals
  • Fear reinforces the patterns associated with procrastination
  • We avoid medical care because fear has us believing completely in worse case scenarios
  • We avoid talking to people we are attracted to because we have learned to accept the belief, we are unworthy of love
  • We remain in dead-end jobs because we are afraid of taking on new challenges and failing
  • Fear encourages us to engage in constant Catastrophizing
  • We seldom take the risk, which means we often lose out on great opportunities
  • Fear is the best friend of phobia since it keeps it alive and continuously feeds it with reinforcing negative thoughts
  • Fear keeps us locked in a world of constant self-doubts and stuck in worse situations
  • Fear imprisons us

Change is scary, but to handle fear successfully, you need to be willing to change.  It takes effort to change the mindset that reinforces the dialogue of fear. To help you work through your worries, here is a list of healthy suggestions:

  1. You do not need to turn into a superhero; just simply allow yourself a chance to try things.
  2. Take baby steps since every effort will build your courage
  3. Learn about Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy Techniques to help you change the beliefs that reinforce your fears.
  4. Practice visualization techniques to help you imagine new realities and handle fear
  5. Maintain a self-discovery journal and write down in details about your fear
  6. Do a realize ritual, where you write down one thing you are most afraid of and then burn the paper, imagining you are burning away the fear
  7. Read and learn about EMDR therapy to help you conquer fear and phobias
  8. Practice affirmations that reinforce positive thinking patterns
  9. Learn about Vagus Nerve Exercises with the help of a therapist.

Though there is a variety of useful techniques to handle fear, the most successful way to handle fear is through therapy. A therapist can help you navigate through the emotional jungle that keeps you stuck in a life infest with fear. The treatment process may be a bit scary, but keep in mind that it will help you more than remaining stuck.

Copyright © 2020 R. Castro

Resources


Dissecting terror: How does fear work?

What happens brain feel fear

Fear, anxiety and the brain physiology

How does the brain process fear


YouTube videos

https://youtu.be/CSVW2MfVsGU

https://youtu.be/46WZgrbVpM0

https://youtu.be/1IPsBPH2M1U

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